Sorry Andy for not responding right away, but I wanted to give what you said some thought. Not to make light of the title to your last thread, but something is just not adding up right for me.
Quoting Andy: What I "demonstrated" to her was pure selfishness. In her world, nothing's changed.
Are you saying that after all you have done to sincerely become a better person for yourself, for her and your children for the better part of two years has not touch her in any noticabley way? The 180's you have implemented over those years and nothing has changed according to her?
The total release of control over what happens to R, the steadfast patience of waiting and accepting whatever fate she eventually decides to choose after all this time, the support of holding the family together whenever she felt she needed to escape it all and ride in fellowship of a MF.
She believes these are the continuing acts of unforgivable selfishness on your behalf??
Andy, I'm just dumbfounded... I just don't know what else to say...
