[quote=round2going4win] I want to maintain a realtionship with him.... and I am okay with just a friendship. [quote]

BUT...how many friends do you have a physical relationship with?

I know it's scary to admit, but it sounds like you want more than a friendship. That's ok to admit.

It's not that I think he is using you. He was your H at one point. He may be ok w/the way things are just because it is easier.

BUT, you are not ok with the way they are. So....ask yourself what is it that YOU want? Talk it through before you put anything into action.

The truth can be scary...but it can be freeing! It's not the situation you are faced with, it's how YOU face it!

Take care, Bambam

Me-BS 38
X-WS 36
Separated 11/15/2006
Filed for D 8/1/2007
Divorce Final 12/21/2007
S13, S13 (twins), D9
Married 13 Yrs
Together 20 Yrs