My W took the OM to OUR time share for the Affair. I know exactly how your feel. I paid for him to sleep with my wife. But ya gota let it go. DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE OM TO HER got it? It only hurts your heart and makes her defend him. Pretend he does not exist. It hard I know I have been ready to give up countless times but I always come back her and someone knock my up along side my head and set me back on track. Be nice to her. The nicer you are the less she will have to talk to him about. HOPEFULLY with you playing nice. The OM will start talking bad about you. Once your W see’s you are sincere she may start defending your actions to the OM she will dump him, come running back to you get on her knees and beg forgiveness. Ok I got a little carried away with the last part. Even though I get discouraged I have noticed that the more I GAL and distance but still show I care. Help out with dishes, fold clothes Ect. She is slooooooooowly doing nice things for me. She at one point didn’t want to be in the same room with me. EVERYTHING I did pissed her off. I didn’t put the pan in the right place. I was home I could have vacuumed the house. Blab blab blab. I have not heard one complaint about me in the last 3 weeks. (It seems like 3 years). It is taking so long because time stops when we are together. But it is nicer now. Stay strong bud. I need ya when I fall off the happy thoughts wagon.
Pop open a cold one and watch the sun set
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
