3 Sounds the best to me but....I check to make sure this is not going to hurt your rights to your girls. I.E abandoning I know you are not you know you are not but if things get nasty in court some day it could be brought up. I don know but I would check. As for the W it will give her a preview of the future with out you
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
