Thank you for all your support so far. I am glad to see that you are headed in the right direction pertaining to your sitch. I hope everything continues to go down the right path for you!
Yes, my dad directed me to this site. He has been so great in helping me work through this. He is the one person that I know I can turn to for support and give good advice because he has been DBing for the last 2 years.
I also am beginning to feel that she is starting to pursue me. However, I am not getting my hopes up. She still mentions getting her own apartment and has made "To Do" notes to herself to search for apartments along with all of the other stuff she has to take care of.
Monday morning I got a phone call at 10:30am from my mom. I talked to her for about 10 minutes. While the GF was in the other room, I was pretty sure she was trying to listen to the conversation. When I got off the phone, the GF immediatly asked, "Who is calling you so early in the morning?"
That night we were out for a walk and made a comment about meeting me at the second bar I was at. During our walk she flat out said, "I hope I didn't ruin your game when I came up to say hi while you were talking to that girl. I had just done a shot before I came up to you." I simply responded, "Don't worry about it."
She then continued to tell me that a guy stopped her to talk to her and she replied to him, "You were just talking to my ex-boyfriend (I got introduced to a lot of people that night, so I may have talked to him at one point but don't remember) and I still live with him." She then told me that she is sick of guys and just wants to go out and have a good time without guys coming up to her.
She then goes on to tell me that she ended up talking to that group of guys until the bar closed. She told me all about their conversation (just general chit-chat) and that he walked her out to her car after the bar had closed.
I find it both weird and funny that she asks me all kinds of questions about where I am going, what I am doing, etc. And while I don't ask her anything but real general questions (ex. "Did you have fun last night?") she almost always tells me all the details of where she was and who she was with.
Side Note - The friend that came with my GF to the second bar ended up leaving that bar shortly after they got there. I know for a fact that this friend doesn't care for the club that we were at. So why would my GF drag a friend to a bar that she would not normally hang out. Especially when all of their other friends were at the bar that they had just left from! Maybe to check up on me?
