Why do these things happen

[789]

In this area I would probably get shot by a real gun, so I think I will pass on that one.
Hey though, it might get my W to show emotion if I was shot.
JUST KIDDING, but a funny thought.

[JR2007]

Skate boarding down a canyon road.
OKAY, now I think your nuts. or MLC.

The long boards are a lot more stable than the standard ones. But there are trails next to the road, I'm not out on the road.

[789]

Would still scare the hell out of me

[JR2007]

I like to take a little risk, but I won't do anything really dangerous. I do have a wife and son to provide for.

[789]

I think I will stick with my risks, ducking when someone yells "fore" and taking the garbage out late at nite...

[JR2007]

I think I will stick with my risks, ducking when someone yells "fore" and taking the garbage out late at nite...

LOL, good idea.

[789]

Here I am again not knowing what to do with myself.
I found out thru my IL's that my W's grandmother passed away early this morning. I do not know why I am mad, but why couldn't my W call me and let me know. I did call her right afterwords to give my codolences. Her grandmother was loved by all, even myself.
When I found out from the IL's they let me know that they would keep me up to date about when and where the funeral would be which was nice. My W never made a comment about it when I called her. So now I have to wonder if I go or not. I really want to go to show my respects, but feel if my W does not actually invite me that I probably should not go, it should be time for her and her family and believe she is the one that should want me to be part of her family at this time or not. The funeral will be small and only family for the most part and I feel that I might be an intrusion. Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions on how to deal with this.

[789]

I know I should just ask, but it sounds wierd in my head to ask to go to a funeral. Also, even though I have been behaving myself, any time I ask about doing anything, which is far and few between, she just shuts down 90% of the time. I think if I ask her instead of seeing if she asks me to come, she will do her normal thing and think I am just trying to get back in her life and she will just push away like normal.
Now realize this, with the little things she has done and said, I have the utmost hope and belief at this time that we will be back together one day.I just don't want to F*** up, especially during this time of mourning for her.

[789]

I guess I over thought once again. W just called to find my work schedule out, then asked if I am going to the funeral. Then I possibly shot myself in the foot

M - sure, but I didn't know if you wanted me to be there.

H- of course you should be there,I would expect you to be with me and the family.

I have stop over analyzing everything, it is going to drive me to the looney bin.

[JR2007]

She wants you to be there for her.

That's a good thing.

No kidding! That's awesome she called. Don't blow it!!