So you meant your H feels ashamed/wrong /dirty about HIS sexuality??? or do you know or think he feels ashamed/wrong/dirty about YOUR sexuality??
A little of both I think. But he says it is HIS sexuality that is more inhibited and that it is something he is just not comfortable expressing. He realizes this and is making an effort to change it. He has never outright commented on my own sexuality. He says I am sexy, desirable, hot, etc. But the way he SHOWS it is not what I consider consistent with his words. This is a work in progress.
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Sooooo have you told your H how much you want to feel wanted and desired by him???
Well of course. But it is hard to MAKE someone desire you in the way that YOU want them to. They have their own sexuality, their own comfort level, etc. We are a little mismatched when it comes to sexual expression but it is not something that can't be improved.
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For some reason I picture him looking at you surprised and saying "But I do desire you!!!??!!" And he also seems like the kind of man who might be up to the challenge of proving to you how much he desires you!!
