Thanks for that thought-provoking feedback Fearless.

Yeah I am much better at provoking thought than giving answers \:\) (Although I do enjoy math and science problems where I can get "right" answers!!)

Let me correct you and say I don't feel ashamed/wrong/dirty about my sexuality.

I don't mind being corrected but I did take that verbatim from a post by you to Mojo on Crazy Eddie's thread "Question for HD women".

LFL - Although when it comes right down to it, I think it is all about me being able to express myself sexually without feeling ashamed/wrong/dirty/whatever

I have sensed my H thinks that way though. But he has come a long way in reducing his inhibitions.

So you meant your H feels ashamed/wrong /dirty about HIS sexuality??? or do you know or think he feels ashamed/wrong/dirty about YOUR sexuality??

It probably does have a lot to do with feeling desired. I know that is what was lacking in my M with my H so I'm sure I sought that out when I was S.

Sooooo have you told your H how much you want to feel wanted and desired by him???

For some reason I picture him looking at you surprised and saying "But I do desire you!!!??!!" And he also seems like the kind of man who might be up to the challenge of proving to you how much he desires you!!



But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus