I am looking to solicit your expert advice on my next move regarding my sitch. I love my Separated Crew but I have been so touch and go on the BBs that I have lost readers. The 2 readers that still respond are great guys who have been with me from the beginning and have their opinions, however, I am just not sure Here is a link to my current thread Slow and Steady...but for those who want the condensed version, here is a quick run down:
Separated since 11/06, H wants freedom and needs to find his identity (I moved out, it was most practical). H confesses to having PTSD and tells me he is in counseling. A few months of on/off of my going dark and detaching. H says he thinks we were just in a rut before. H recently has been talking about "us" renting a house and "us" getting a dog. I am supporting his decision to rejoin the military and he talks about when "we" transfer and mentioned that he wanted me to not have to work and go to school. Friday before last we had sex for the first time in 9 months!
My lease expires at the end of July (H is aware of this, he found the place) and although I am getting really positive signs, there has been no definitive "come home" declaration from H...I don't know if I should venture to initiate a conversation with H about living arrangements post my lease expiration.
Please help and give advice...I will take all that I can get as I seem to be at a crossroads without a compass or Mapquest .
Here is a link to my current thread 
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