frank_d, One thing I was thinking about after reading that earlier is, one of our biggest fights has been her emotional entanglement with a friend. Hours a day on the phone, when she goes out it's with this friend, that kind of thing. I kept telling her that if she would just give me half of that energy, maybe we could reconcile. Obviously, I have stopped that.
Now, W will be on the phone with this friend for an hour before bed. Then she will get in bed with me and we will catch up on TIVO. She will have absolutely nothing to say. Driving places, nothing to say. Hanging out, nothing to say. Granted, she is a quiet person and she has made the point that during these phone conversations, she really doesn't do a lot of talking, just listens to her friend.
Should I leave it alone? The conversations I do hear her having with her friends are usually girlfriend type stuff anyway, I just wish she would open up to me about other stuff. You know the emotional intimacy type thing.
Just don't know how to get there from here right now, if at all.
