have you read the mars venus books? has she? I think I see a lot of ignorance on her part, the same one I had before my H left. Ignorance of how her behavior is damaging, ignorance of what truly means to be married. She has a lot to learn, perhaps later on you can mention you will be seing a C and that you'd like her to come, ask gently and without expectations.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
