New here from MLC board - Need Advice

[cat03]

I"m sorry to hear this hon))))))
There are so many approaches to the OW sitch, some in this board are able to wait the ow's madness to go away, some draw the line. If they are still seing each other say even for the occasional lunch, he prob still wants to look good in her eyes.
About the T, get a new one NOW, dont' wait it out. Give yourself (or him) a deadline about he ow contact and stick to it. If it's been a year he's had plenty of time.