"I'm still learning how to figure out which ones really bother me and which ones kind of do. Hopefully this week will go better - if I get snippy comments from H again this week I'll definitely address it, but I'm kind of glad I let it go last week to give him a little time to deal with the whole issue in his mind."
This is so great. You are owning your stuff so well, your choices, their consequences. No victim-speak to see there!!!
:-D
Your calf trying to nurse story made me miss my baby, who is at the babysitter so I can work, so gotta go.