hey there, keep up on your reading. Remember to always use "I" sentences and to always give him the benefit of the doubt, to mind your voice and ask yourself "if he were to talk to me the way I'm going to talk to him how would I feel?"
If you see a bad pattern emerging, quelch it quick. Sometimes in our effords to have "the last word" we screw up the good process we've achieved. Acknowledge your shortcomings graciously, let him know you want to work w/him and reach an agreement together, hear him out.
Hang in there, it takes a while
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
