yup, that's exactly what my H used to say long ago, that when I was miserable and brought it up he just felt he was being a failure and that his effords were just now enough if I was feeling that way.
Even if you don't say anything, your body/face expressions will betray you. So, RELAX!!! each day has its own grief, so just take it one day at a time. Find yourself a project (paint a room, take a hobby, WORK OUT) and find your own peace, your own happiness. And yes, no more crying in front of him!!! seek out your sister or a C.
We all reach a low here and there, so not all is lost ok? it's just a small set back, hang in there gal)))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
