If she does that, and he says "nope, I'm going to stay right here in the bedroom, and if you attempt to come in again I'll go somewhere else, and please put 2000$ on my account Monday?"
Like I said, I don't think pushing will work in his case.
Heather, I'm not you. Me, I'd let the porn go. Straightforward pictures-only porn, without actually talking to some real person like on AFF, is something 90% of guys do, and 10% lie about it. (Statistic made up on the spot by SouthernGirl). I personally wouldn't care. Maybe you do, and that's your right. But you still have to consider what kind of a person you're dealing with.
I personally wouldn't blame you at all if you up and left, right this minute. I'm only saying that, if you really want to stay that year, you might try to approach him like I outlined before. Otherwise, you'll only waste another year of precious youth in an entrenched war. That doesn't mean you can't still, once your year is up (or at any time in between) up and leave. You always have that choice even if you don't continually wave it in his face, kwim? You're free, and always will be.
