katie, I don't usually blast newcomers, but you don't know what the fark you are talking about.

If you have a story to tell, create your own thread, spill and ask for thoughts or advice or whatever.

If you don't have one to tell, and you just showed up here for sh*ts and giggles, spare us.

But don't come on here with post # just out of the box and tell off fig.

Again, you don't know her, you don't know her sitch, you don't know how supportive she is to others, how caring, concerned, open minded, generous, sympathetic, and big hearted she is.

In short, you don't know diddle...

That ain't no way to ingratiate yourself to folks on this board, coming on here as a newbie, and launching pot shots at people.

BA