Jazz
I think the point that is being made is this..

Yes there is such a thing as MLC but there are many here whose Spouses are not in MLC.

There are some here who post that absolutely refuse to see that their Spouse might simply be a walkaway.

That they are done with the Marriage, for whatever reason, and yet they try to find excuses for the behaviour and refuse to look at themselves as part of the cause.

At the end of the day we have to choose what is right for us, what will make us happy.

It is true that many do find a level of acceptance and happiness without their Spouse returning and simply move on and the strange thing is that the walkaway Spouses sometimes do make an effort to move home, but by this time the LBS simply can not accept them back into their lives.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.