Again with the bitterness. Please show me where. I use the interactions with my former Mrs. (she is not my wife) to illustrate where things I have learned from this side of the journey. Here. I love my ex but I am not in love with her. And guess what, that is the feeling I get from her. Do I ever feel sadness? Yes. If it ate me up, then I would be bitter.
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that you feel the need to try to point out to everyone that their spouses MLC might also be BS.
No. I point out that when people make stuff up, it is BS. MLC or not, all anyone can do is be the best person they can be. If it is MLC, be aware but don't hang on every move. Because how long do you want to hang on every action. 2 years...5 years...8 years. No one knows. And no one can think about it every day for that long and keep their sanity.