I understand people using MLC as a crutch...to explain away their problems. But it seemed to me, in reading your post on hope's thread that you are questioning that.
I think it might be presumptious to question if someone is going through MLC or not without being a paychiatrist and meeting them.
We just have to trust each other and help in the best ways we can going on the information we have.
To act as though you have some sort of intimate knowledge of anyones's situation is a tad presumptious.
This is what I mean by taunting or making people out to be idiots...to assume that someone is spouting MLC BS is implying that you have some knowledge that no one else does.
I say that you may nothave moved on becuase you speak of your wife and her MLC or lack there-of with bitterness...you are so angry, it seems about it being "BS", that you feel the need to try to point out to everyone that their spouses MLC might also be BS.
My spouse's was...he is a sociopath...no MLC...just crazy
