IMP... Maybe this will sound rude and I am certain you will take it wrong (sigh)
but...why do you post on this board if you don't beleive in MLC? Why do you come here?
Those of us who may question MLC have never done so in a way that strips other people of their right to feel.
It seems like anyone who holds a different view than you is taunted or made out to be some sort of idiot. If you really feel you were victimized by your wife's MLC...perhaps you haven't moved on as much as you would like us to believe.
Everyone's situation is different and you taking away a coping mechanism does nothing.
Again...if you really don't believe in MLC...why do you post here?
