Ok GEL, so tell me this. You find the porn on your H's computer, you confront him about it, he tells you it's off the table for discussion. Period, the end. The next day, he buys you bubble bath and wants you to take a bath. What would YOU do???
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
