my needs are starting to be met??? are h's? what are h's needs?

Hell, LL, he's a guy. He might not even know what his needs are! So, it might pay to not assume that he knows, and that he just ain't telling you.

This could be a long process of experimenting, and observing. Or, instead of asking "what do you like", asking him "which do you like better, when I do this, or that".

I don't know. Maybe this guy is just a loner, and an introvert at heart. Have you EVER found anything that really trips his trigger? Anything that he gets excited about? There may be some clues about his unspoken needs there.

JJ

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