Quote: It is a good thing that you appreciate his acts of service. But I wonder if that appreciation is enough for you in the long run.
no it is not enough, had it been enough things never would have gotten to the point they did. I need for h to learn my "love language" and hopefully over time and with patience h will understand the need to learn a new language. I wish I knew what h's language was...is....I don't have an explenation for why he "spent quality time" with another when that is what I wanted, I don't know if there was "touch" involved in their r but I know they did hug on at least one occasion and when they were seen she did have her hands on his back (exuse from her...crowded elevator, exuse from him...she is uncomf in elevators and asked if she could). h cannot communicate to me what his "needs" are other than to be given his "space" I am willing to give him his "space" if he is willing to give me the qt and touch that I crave.
I do not want to walk away...if I did...I would have left long before all this and wouldn't have married him.
