thanks for the inquiry fellow furniture. I got sick last week and am just now beginning to feel human. Really miserable ache all over malaise. But finally dragging back from the precipice (sp?)
Today I get to go on a bowling field trip with DD8. A bit of a busmans holiday for me but I figure how much longer will she want me to go places with her? I'd better take advantage while I can.
Homefront: spouse and OW are considering the stupidity of their situation and OW has decided they should stop having a sexual relationship as it will "never go anywhere"...except to bed evidentally. Idiots. Spouse as usual when confronted with anything suggesting rebuilding family says "I'm confused and don't know what to do". I must be more assertive but just haven't had the stamina due to illness. I have done what I could via email. I have made what I consider a last ditch effort to learn how to get spouses attention by consulting a much more DIRECT coach, not affiliated with this site but also very good. (that is not a slam at coaches from this site, they too are very good. How sad that affairs are so prevalent they can be studied)
I'm sure just like you, I go back and forth trying to figure out what's best for DD etc. And sometimes I do it with a broken heart and sometimes with a clear head. And almost always with tears. Ain't life grand?
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
