I've only caught up with your most recent posts, so forgive me if I ask you a few things that you've already addressed, ok?!
When it comes to your feelings of not being loved, and him not working on the R, how have you been on "asking for what you want", and "catching him doing things right"?
Do you think that you have given him a pretty clear picture of exactly what it that makes you feel loved? Or is he just shining your wishes on?
Are there ever any times when he IS doing things right? If so, what's going on during these times? What are YOU doing that might be making this happen?
During these times, are you doing things to let him know that "he done good"? Have you ever verbally told him that some of the things he was doing when he first got back made a difference, that these were some of the things that you like?
JJ
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