I am soooooooooooo HAPPY for you.... I too just recently did this. I stayed up 'til 2 a.m. reading and laughing and crying at all of my thoughts. It feels so good to know how far youv'e come doesn't it! All because you never gave up and your H was willing to follow. I believe it is something to really be proud of and the lesson I learned will not be wasted. I have 5 kids and I was teaching them a lot and now when they are old enough to be Married ... I will teach them as best I can to take their Marriage very seriously and a the same time to be free to be who they really are without fear. FEAR is what got me into so much trouble. We are taught so much growing up. I was never taught all the wonderful things I learned here. SO, to have to learn this the hard way.. that I do not want for my kids. Enjoy your newfound Happiness sweetie you deserve it! Take care sweetie and GOD bless.....