Whatis...its just that the advice I am getting, and its excellent advice here....is just misplaced for me and my sitch ....if I reveal all, then everyone would understand.
As far as my M problems.....all the advice given is precisely what I should do. But before I can do that, my W needs to respect the boundaries I have given her.....or else all I do is in vain.
I am getting 3 free counseling sessions with a top psychologist in my area. My W is invited to go, that's all I can do for her. I am going for me, and I am highly interested in what she (the doc) will have to say about me and about my sitch.
I want to be sure that I am thinking clearly.......if I am insane to save this M or not. I'm not going to be posting as much now, I am at the end of my rope here. I will post when I have my session....and I plan to have more than 3. Believe it or not, it took guts for me to go back to counseling.....maybe my W is afraid to see that she really has issues? Well, if I am going to "man up", then my W should also "woman up" as well and go to therapy herself. My insurance covers it, so she has no excuse about paying for it!
Last edited by sol1696; 05/30/0701:53 PM.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
