Quote: h knows how I feel about the ow being a customer...made that request long before he ever left the house.
Maybe the request needs to be made again...now that you're in a "different place?"
Quote: h doesn't know how to fix it and I'm starting to think the reason he doesn't want to go to c is because the truth will come out.
LL, none of our Ses WANT to work on our M. It's hard, it hurts, it goes against how they are presently feeling, and it takes WORK. Nonetheless, it NEEDS to be done...eventually. You cannot continue in this fashion...it's too destructive. Honestly, LL, you've got to get a game plan together here. Resigning yourself to your sitch is the same as saying that you're waiting for Mr. Right to come along and tell you all the things you want to hear. You know this, you've seen this, and you've read it on this BB a million times. You are a prime WAW candidate.
You've got to change the dynamic, change the patterns of the past, and get a game plan. I'm so sorry...
