MC, OC here again. First, just want to say I think you are doing GREAT!!! I really think your W is turning around. I can see signs the same with my h. Yes, right now W is crazy and confused. But deep inside, she knows what is the right thing to do. The truth has not surfaced yet. I remember h was STONE COLD towards me in the beginning. Slowly, very slowly, little things changed. To give you an example, when the A with OW was at its peak, he even likes the kind of food she likes. They think alike, she is "fun, fit, soul-mate", the whole lot. Then SLOWLY, slowly, he starts to like the "old type of food" again. Also slowly, "oh no, our behavior was quite different from mine". "well, she can't even cook". This comes very slowly, and don't ever ask. It will have to come from her, when she is ready. I can see lots of positive in yours. But it's not time for her to commit yet. I think at this point, she is thinking you are not so "bad" as initially thought. But she is still deciding. Just remember, she will retreat and be "mean" to you every so often. Just expect that to happen so you can handle it better. Chat later.
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?
