h knows how I feel about the ow being a customer...made that request long before he ever left the house.
he has yet to decide how he's going to handle it..perhaps if she does d her h she will not have the money to afford the luxury of his services.... but honestly her being a client does little to ensure his availabilty to her that window was passed through long ago there was no reason whatsoever for h to be being at her home even once a week (he does not do the services) so what good does it do. yes he could always go back to her but to hear him say it she doesn't want anything to do with him...she wants to be with someone who wants her and his confusion and comming back to me have left her seeing that he doesn't know what he wants but she will still d her h anyway.
h's appartment....he knows how I feel about that too...but still he keeps it as a convenience hell for all I know he could be going there to take naps during the day.
as to why h left??? to spend more time with her??? she did have a h who came home everyday after work...my h was already seeing her 3x a week and talking to her everyday...h was leaving this house at 5:30am and usually not returning till 7pm and I had no idea where he was all day and still usually don't. so really what more freedom did he need to see her. hell the night he brought me and dd home from the hospital he left to go to the "office" to do some work, two nights later he went to bil's to watch football. I mean really is this a guy who needed to leave home to have more freedom???
none of it matters.
h didn't value our r
h screwed up royally in having r with ow whether it was physical or not.
h left me and the kids
h came home
h doesn't know how to fix it and I'm starting to think the reason he doesn't want to go to c is because the truth will come out.
