Our posts just overlapped. Thanks for your thoughts. Yes, that makes sense that any sort of positive movement sends us sideways a bit. It's a whole new arena. I hope where we are going is in a positive direction, even if the direction we are going is convoluted and twisted right now. I guess this is all relatively new to me as far as this change in his actions, and I'm having to "learn" how to handle this and to take care of myself in the process... It's brought up a whole new set of emotions that I'm working through. I'm just not sure the best course of action to take right now.
I know that snooping is a negative action and that it only hurts us. I know that in the past when I stopped myself from snooping it helped me so much. I have experienced that for myself, so I do know that. As I mentioned, I guess with the turns things have taken over the past few weeks I now feel a greater "need" to know what actions he is taking, maybe just out of trying to protect my own heart.
