Tam, sometimes the hardest time is when we sense some movement. When they shut you out it is, in a strange sort of way, easier because you know how the game is to be played, the rules are understood. When there are "baby steps" you want to grab onto them and bring the love back yesterday! I know last summer when I sensed some change in my W I was ready to sing and dance. It felt really good but the sky just continued to fall (not that yours will!). Now, my last bit of advice, snooping is not a feel good activity, it is part of NOT distancing yourself. I know it's hard as Hell but try and at least cut back. The more you snoop the more entwined you are in his actions, that can be our downfall. Do for Tam and by doing so you are doing for your M. Take care of you.
