I agree I would give her the money. It's hard but you have to try to build trust agian. It's like my son and I going away for the week. I almost canceled the trip because I could not trust my W being alone for a week. But then The only person that would really be hurt would be my son. I CAN NOT CONTROL MY W. I don't want to control her. I want her to stop the R with the OM because SHE wants to be with me and not him. I think they need to spell thing out mor clearly in the wedding voes. it does say love, honor, and obey. they need to add and not cheat.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
