Just talked to step MIL. I had to call because I received an email from DH in which he stated he was so happy. Step MIL said that DH talked to his dad and told him he was doing great and was so happy. I felt gutted. She had to go but called again later. Said she was so proud of me and felt very connected with me. She told DH dad that she was not ready to meet OW by far and continued to tell him that she felt he would betray me if he decided to go up there and meet DH. Her initial reaction to email was to tell DH that I needed to get mad and back off but when I explained some stuff she changed her mind. She said I think you have to continue what you are doing I can almost fill in the blanks. She said I think it is unbelievable what DH does to you and doesn't he even see this?? I felt better afterwards. She said OW needs to leave because only then you will get a fair chance. I said maybe DH dad can convince him to be alone for a while.
