Thx WAW,

I think I will just give her the $200 and leave it at that.

I don't think I will mention the other amount. It's just not worth the hassle.

I will be the nice person that I am, like you said, and maybe build something out of nothing re R.

AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."