Yes, there definitely is, Whatisis. I moved my office home around April 14th I think it was or so. I don't have my calendar in front of me, but I think he came home maybe 3 times between then and the end of April, so not a huge amount, but a slight change from before.
Then it started May 7th or whatever that Sunday was that he came home from his shrimping weekend with the guys that this 23 day long stint started. I know I'm presuming, but there was a credit card receipt on his PERSONAL credit card, not the business credit card, for a charge to a nice restaurant for the night before he left with the guys for the weekend to go shrimping. On the receipt he just wrote "dinner" for what it was for. He usually write who it was with, but not on this one. And there usually isn't many personal charges, as most of his dinners are with business associates. And there was a charge for a bottle of wine and four drinks, two each of a different kind. (I don't think we've EVER ordered a bottle of wine when we've gone out to dinner...) So, anyway, I'm presuming that he took her out the night before he left, which killed me...
So then he was gone from Friday morning until Sunday morning and came home that night, and that's when this stint started.
He also told me that it was when I was in Vegas by myself that he decided to give us another chance...
So I do know that pulling away from him does make him think about us and pull him a bit closer. It's kind of hard to do that so much now that he has been coming home more. But I will take what you said into consideration and will work towards distancing myself in ways that I can, such as not answering his calls so much during the day, etc.
I left him a message tonight around 7:45 on the way to the job site - I left my phone in the car, so I don't know if he has called back yet. I'm feeling the anxiety of the possible evening without him coming on... God, give me strength.
