Quoting lostlove:
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I know it seems he doesn't do enough now, but if you consistantly let him know when he gets it right, then he can believe what he does can make you happy and it will encourage him to try it some more


I thank him all the time, I point out good things when they happen, doesn't seem to keep them comming. oh well.


Do you also show him how those good things make you happy? Make a big deal about kissing him on the cheek? Get girrlly giddy afterwards?

True or not, somehow the pattern that drives his perception that you are never happy no matter what he does needs to be broken. It may take you having to over-emphasize it at first to break the mold.

'til later,
KAW