So,you are still physical with him? If so, that may be why it's still in limbo.
I'm not suggesting he is using you or having his cake and eating it too....but he doesn't have a real reason to commit right now. Call me crazy, but I think that is human. If he can have this great relationship w/you and still be able to "date", why would he give it up?
Am I off the mark here? I don't want to be critical b/c we all are different. If it were me and it was physical, I would end that part now. You may need some distance b/w you....the old cliche "Distance makes the heart grow fonder" is not too far off!
Did any of this make sense or offer any help?
bambam
Me-BS 38 X-WS 36 Separated 11/15/2006 Filed for D 8/1/2007 Divorce Final 12/21/2007 S13, S13 (twins), D9 Married 13 Yrs Together 20 Yrs