Anned and JustD...I had many of the same feelings...feeling like an idiot...feeling like there was certainly someone better out there for me....wondering if he went of the end for good and could never be someone I would like again...wondering if love was enough...not being able to imagine myself with someone else...and wondering how he could....
Believe me when I say these are all pretty normal...remember you are grieving the loss of your marriage...as you knew it...even if you do reconcile...the marriage you had/have now will forever be gone...it has to...because it was the broken one...for now the warranty hasn't expired...so there is still a chance to exchange it for the new one...and we all know how it goes with "things"...they are always NEW and IMPROVED!...so that is the version of marriage you want...
