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If you stop telling him and let the pieces lay around by focusing more on yourself, he may realize he should pick them up on his own rather than tripping on them.



or I may continue to feel resentful for the fact that he doesn't pick up the peices, because he doesn't, this is not a new thing nor is dr my first introduction to phsycology. I have tried the I'll just do my thing bit and you know what... h is more than happy to let me do my thing and never spend time with me.