It is amazing what a vacation can do...prior to our separation I had never really vacationed with just the kids and I...so after he left the one gift I gave myself was a cruise with the kids to Mexico...it was wonderful...we had such a grand time...I really thought I would be so sad for most of the time but I wasn't...I really began to let go then...
It was not too long after my return that H then told me of his decision to move closer to me and the kids again...eventually this set in motion our reconciliation...
I am not telling this to get your hopes up...or to even suggest this is what you may experience...what I am saying is that this is a time for YOU to truly soak up and enjoy your children...and to have a wonderful time...this in embarking on a new adventure...one that will make new memories for you and the kids...ones that only you three will share...be selfish with them...it will really help you to feel better...I know it did such good things for me...
