Yes, we are currently under the same roof playing house mates. She is still doing work around the house, buying groceries, and planning her summer here at our home. She is just planning to move on by the end of summer. That is why I feel I have a few more months of this arangement.
I agree the getting fit is for me and I do feel much better when I workout regularly. Working out used to be a big part of my life, I just need to make the effort to make it apart of it again. I really have no excuse I have a gym in my basement.
As for getting a real good lawyer there is one more that I need to sitdown with. Even so I think that I have her in this department. Another thing is that since my W has been a stay at home mom for my kids entire lives and the fact that she is a good mom, I really do not stand much of a chance getting primary custody. When it comes to custody and each others involvement in our kids lives we agree, we just disagree where their primary residence should be. I want them, she wants them.
From our conversation the last night the way she was talking I would have our kids for almost half the year. I just worry that as my kids get older and are more involved in school and other activities that they are going to naturally stay with my W more often. This is a fear of mine.
As for tonight I saw my W briefly, we where cordial with each other, and then she was off to work. I played with my girls on their new slip and slide. We then looked at our pictures from this last weekend and I gave them baths. Now they are snug in bed and I have to deal with the puppy(My W keeps asking me if I want the puppy, WTH).
