Thanks a lot for the info re your sitch. It makes me have hope that my W can turn back into the loving woman she used to be instead of the b$$$ she is now.

Re D, I am letting her proceed with all the work. Fortunately she isn't getting a lawyer and wants to have a parallegal handle it. The few times I can talk to her are about the separation, division of assets and the kids. All the while I try to put on a PMA and exude a happy attitude. I even joke about what I can take, like the big screen tv.

I do hope you're right about the honeymoon being over soon. My wife is intelligent and I don't see a college drop-out front desk hotel worker meeting her minimum standards for long. All I know is that he listens and compliments a lot. Other than that I don't know what they will have in common. I'm eager to take her back(but won't show it).

Thanks for the hope. Now I know it is possible for a W to snap out of it!


ME: 39 ring on
wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC
son:17,11
dtr:9
mar:17yr
Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old.
DBing 5-19-07
My story on the link below.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470