It's so good to see your posting. I'm sorry you're going through a rough time right now. I know how family issues can all seem to happen at the same time..like an avalanche of pain and worry..and never-ending. I lost so many family members with the span of a couple of years that felt I was numb to anymore pain...then XH dropped the bomb. Nice timing, huh?
I'm like you. His MLC doesn't really interest me anymore, although I must admit it never ceases to amaze me how much it all seems in such a pattern with most. It's like confirmation each time 'they' do such dumb-arse things, you know? LOL I don't analyze as much, but it's still a habit I haven't broke completely. The last year has been trying to keep my own head above water, and trying to mend some of the damage this family has had visited upon them by his choices and actions. Unfortunately, we all know that there is little we can do but love our kids. It still just hurts thinking about what they've had to experience compared to what I experienced having two parents that stayed together and weathered the storms.
Thank you for wishing me luck with the boundaries. Me tends to think he's already second guessing his decision to move back in with dear old mom (snicker) We shall see, we shall see..
Take care, and I hope that you'll keep coming back and posting once in awhile too. Isn't it nice to catch up?
Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible
