KAW and Utterly've got the right idea. See if H stays so indifferent once you're not just sitting home all the time, holding everything together. At the very least, now you'll be getting some more detachment from what (for now, anyways) is an unfulfilling relationship.
You had been planning on taking on some new activities for some time now. Too bad it doesn't just happen overnight. Perhaps things will go better now that things are finally starting up.
