Talk to her in a civil manner. I mean you want to show her you're the man of the house? Have a nice conversation about keeping the children aware of any changes to schedule. Don't blame, don't make a big deal, just make a decision together on how to avoid that situation in the future. Make sure she feels like she's part of the negotiation and decision, but you make the decision and make sure it works for her.

Try that, see how it goes. Nice, calm tone of voice is key

We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...