I have found some new things to do with myself, and it's fun and useful, so that's good for me.
(Okay, Nicola, get your mind out of the gutter - he doesn't mean it that way...)
I didn't say do TO myself
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JR - I want my D over with too, ASAP, and I don't even want a D. Thing is, I'm getting one, barring divine intervention, whether I want it or not. It's causing me so much stress and work, that I just want to get the negotiations done. H does too - although his gf may have something to do with that.
Anyway, my point is that wanting it to be over quickly doesn't necessarily mean all that much.
~Nicola
Are you referring to my statement that my W wants it over with? If you've been reading my threads at all, you know it's not true. If she wanted it over with fast, it would be done. SHE is the one dragging things out. Her friend says she wants it done, well then, why isn't it done???
I really thought I didn't want a divorce, now I'm not even sure we should be married. Maybe we really should throw in the towel. Maybe that would just make everything easier for everyone, right? I mean if we could get to this point after being married 11 years, what's the point of dragging out the inevitable??? I'll just be a really great dad for my son, and make sure he gets raised right, when he's with me. We could just go to a mediator tomorrow and be done in 2-3 weeks.
Right?
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
