It's not the friend who's posturing, it's your W. There will come a day when you do it too.
I have to posture? You mean like when I was happy to be splitting up all our stuff last Thursday?
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The key is not to wait but to live. And we do it because we don't have any choice.
Agreed. The one dude was right, I have been obsessing and that's a trait I HAVE to ditch. It's so weird being with someone for 11 years. You know she's there for you, you know you have someone to go do something with, you know she loves you, it gets comfortable. Then when the rug is pulled out, you really have no idea what to do? I'm trying to be way more frugal with money, as that got me in a lot of trouble with her, so I don't golf as much, I don't want to be a couch-potato anymore, so no TV, and you can only work out so long each day
Fortunately I have this new job starting soon, so that'll be a huge relief, I really can't wait! That'll take my mind off a lot of stuff as I'll be really busy getting up to speed.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
