Quoting lostlove: well I guess I know h better than all of you, I did for like one little second think it might be something for me but then I woke up and realized who h is.... but what really pisses me off is that he probably has yet to get me anything nor does he have any idea what he will be getting me for my b-day
LL, Yikes, I do feel like I know him well after all! Let me guess...he will leave it until the day of, be late home on your b'day because he had to go shopping, leaving you to look after the kids, the house, any visitors, etc., then show up with something he evidently put little thought into, because he left it so late. You will make your own b'day dinner, and if any family or friends come over, it's only because either you invited them yourself, or dropped major hints to him, which he ignored until the last minute. Your MIL will bail him out, but only slightly, by bringing a cake.
Please tell me I'm wrong! Otherwise I didn't know my H had a clone in the U.S.!